Why Hasnt My Prince Charming Come Yet?

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So many wonderful women worry about finding their Prince Charming, or worry that they will never find a decent man at all. And they are tired of kissing frogs! Why haven't they attracted their perfect man yet?

Well to answer this question, we must introduce the all-important topic of thought and how Law of Attraction works in harmony with it.

Thought is a manifestation of energy, with magnetic powers of attraction.

"When we think, we send out vibrations of a fine ethereal substance, which are as real as the vibrations manifesting light, heat, electricity, and magnetism. That these vibrations are not evident to our five senses is no proof that they do not exist. A powerful magnet will send out vibrations and exert a force sufficient to attract to itself a piece of steel weighing a hundred pounds, but we can neither see, taste, smell, hear nor feel the mighty force."

"Not only do our thought waves influence ourselves & others, but they have a drawing power - they attract to us the thoughts of others, things, circumstances, and people" ~William Walker Atkinson

Thoughts truly are things. Picture the thought bubble from a character on a comic strip in the newspaper. Thoughts actually have form and exist all around you, and have frequencies which can be measured with scientific instruments. The ever-present Law of Attraction (LOA) responds to the thought vibrations you emit by drawing back to you people, events, and circumstances with match your vibration. People often believe that since they are consistently focusing on what they want, that what they want should come to them, that's how Law of Attraction is supposed to work right? But often, though they believe that they are giving attractive thought power to what they want, they are actually focused in opposition to what they want and repelling their desire. They are focused on the absence of the thing they want.

When you focus on a mate but your dominant thoughts go something like this... "I should have a mate by now. I've written down everything I want. I've visualized him, and I've pretended he exists. Where is he?" or "I'm attractive, I'm successful, hell, I'm the bomb, I should have a fabulous man by now... Hellllloooo Universe, where is he!!?" or "Just give me a sign about when he will be here. Where should I go meet him, what else do I have to do. There must be something within me blocking him from coming to me! What is it that I'm doing wrong?"

If this is the balance of your thoughts most of the time, then you are focused on the absence of this wonderful man. You sooooooo cannot get there from here, and those beliefs aren't serving you!

So, here is what has been left out of this love potion you've been trying to concoct...

A belief is merely a thought that you keep thinking over and over, and you get to choose what you will believe, after all you are the creator of your own experience. You must find thoughts about this relationship/perfect mate that harmonize with the thoughts your "Inner Being" (Higher Self, or whatever term feels good to you) has about this relationship/perfect mate you want.

Here are some of the thoughts your "inner being" is focused upon. "Your mate is ready for you. He is seeking you just as you are seeking him. Your perfect relationship already exists. The circumstances have already been lined up for your rendezvous together, and the attraction will be undeniable. It is already done, all you need to do is chill out, it has been handled."

When you release this resistance (focusing on the absence) and think more thoughts in harmony with your "inner being" about the presence and perfection of this wonderful relationship you will rendezvous with him quickly, but ya' gotta chill out!

The magic is that you don't even have to focus on this wonderful guy or your relationship to attract him. The Universe knows what you want & is yielding it to you; you just need to stay in a vibration that allows this unfolding. So how do you consistently stay in an allowing vibration? You have to find reasons to be joyful. Nothing is more important than feeling good. You must consistently look for good feeling thoughts about anything you are giving your attention to. However, this is not easy if you've been thinking contrary thoughts for some time. You've got a bit of work to do, it's just like building a muscle, and you have to be consistent. But let me make an aside about trying to feel good all the time, and being super vigilant about your thoughts, because it can be a mentally exhaustive feat.

"Thinking is the hardest and most exhausting of all labor; and hence many people shrink from it." ~Wallace D. Wattles

We all have what is called, our handy dandy "Emotional Guidance System." Our emotions tell us what we are attracting. When we don't feel good, guess what, that is guidance telling us that what we are thinking or believing is in contrast to what our "inner being" is thinking! Our inner being has an almost criminal optimism, it is Pollyanna on steroids! It will never join you in those negative thoughts, and that's why you don't feel good. Stop and ask yourself many times throughout your day if you find yourself feeling negative, "What is bothering me... What is my inner being thinking about this? What would my inner being think about this person, or about this subject? Think WWLD (What Would Love Do?)" The answers will always be loving, you will feel your energy shift, and you will be more in alignment with who you really are.

Your goal is merely to maintain a good feeling vibration more of the time, not every minute of the day. It is not bad to have negative thoughts and to feel negative emotions every once in a while. You are not stuffing your feelings down. Things do happen in your life, and things sometimes upset you. But those negative emotions are merely an indication that the thoughts you are thinking in this moment are in opposition to what your inner being is thinking, and you have complete control over how you feel. So when you feel negative emotion just reach for a thought that gives you a little bit of relief from the thought you are thinking in that moment. Make whatever you are thinking about feel a little better to you (reframe the thought), or think about something else completely. Remember WWLD. Some allowing thoughts around the subject of attracting a mate could be: "I'll know him when I see him;" "I don't have to beat up on myself, I am a worthy wonderful woman and a powerful creator, and I can have, be, or do, whatever I desire;" "I don't have to worry about when he is coming into my life, I know that he is, I can feel him" "Life is good" "I am never alone, I have my inner being with me all the time, loving me endlessly, and unconditionally" "I will relax and let the powerful Law of Attraction handle all the details" "This will be easy" "There are so many parts of my life that I love, and I will focus on them."

If you can find reasons to feel good, simply because it feels good, then you've got it! You are in a pure vibration and you and your inner being are in harmony. You are BEing who you really are. And now you can stand back and watch the magic happen!

You are the only thinker/creator in your Universe. Think thoughts that feel good to you, and find reasons to be joyful, and you will attract the mate and life of your dreams.