How to Sleep With Women - Manipulating the Conversation to Escalate

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For guys who want to learn how to sleep with women, escalation from friendly to intimate may be a challenge.

Did you know that you can escalate a seemingly platonic interaction just by manipulating the conversation? Here's how it's done.

How to Manipulate the Conversation to Sleep With a Girl - 3 Tips

1. Reveal Your Intention Through Conversation

Hinting that you're hitting on her is a good way to warm her up, and you can do this physically or mentally.

You can target her senses. When she starts talking to you, you're actually seducing her with the tone of your voice as well as your body language. You'll want to get her familiar in a way that she's comfortable with each sensual move. This is what they mean by being smooth. When she says something funny, touch her in some way like playfully punching her arm, or asking for a high five.

You can communicate your desire to be more-than-friends with her, but keep the tone light and playful. For example, say "even if I weren't hitting on you, I'd think you're pretty hot".

2. Allow Her to Push Back

A minimum amount of push-back on her part is healthy. With a push back we mean teasing her to provoke her (i.e. calling her a prude) then cajoling her when she reacts. If she's the type to keep pushing back, like what happens when a girl becomes too defensive, change the subject and gear the conversation for the next round of playful teasing. The key is to time the provocation so that she's not pushing back more than you want her to. The more she reacts negatively, the less likely she's willing to accept the flirting that comes with the teasing.

3. Build Arousal

Women are very sensual, so you need to clear your bases. You can start with sense of touch, hearing and sight. Touching to stress key points in the conversation is a good way to start. Move closer so she can feel (and get accustomed to) the warmth of your body. Do all these while continuing to flirt with her. Stimulating the sense of taste and smell may come later when the petting starts for real, but you can go for a kiss during the conversation when you feel that the rapport is high enough.

You can also start with the sex talk at this point. For some women, the indicators of attraction are so obvious that you can fast track the whole process by talking about things that you know turn women on and spewing innuendo.

One final tip is to start once you've noticed some signs of attraction; usually after a few minutes into the conversation. The important thing is that you can cope with the pace of the interaction and gear it toward the direction of sex as soon as it starts. Use these tips whenever you're in a conversation with a girl to continue to master the methods on how to sleep with women.