Why Women Love Bad Boys - What Does This Say About People?

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I'm about to give you some eye-opening information in this article. For many years I've always wondered why do women like bad boys so much. How could a woman actually say, "you're too nice" to a guy who acts like a gentleman towards her (I've actually been told this in high school)? As I got older and as I get older, I understand a little more on why women love the bad boys.

A bad boy is to a woman as a slutty woman is to a man. A man enjoys the company of a slut because they are more sexually accessible than an average girl. Even though a classy, respectable lady is what a man needs in his life, slutty women always have a slot in a man's roster of females to have around. For a woman, they love the bad boys because women look to men for leadership and adventure. Deep down every woman has a little slut that wants to come out and the bad boy exploits that. The nice guy, on the other hand, will try to avoid making a woman feel like a slut. Being a slut is socially frowned upon, so a woman wants to be with a guy that says it's okay to act that way sometimes.

Another reason why women love the bad boys is their attitude. These men typically have a "I live by my own rules" mentality. Women don't like being with weak men so a man who lives by his own rules shows strength. If a woman steps out of line of his rules, he will either check her or leave her. The nice guy usually lives by other people's rules and does his best not to break them. This shows weakness in a woman's eyes.

The tragedy for women who are attracted to bad boys is they think that they can make them into boyfriends. If a man is in his "bad boy prime" then a woman will be in for a world of hurt being with him. From being cheated on to being mistreated, these women will cry to their friends and go back to these men for seconds. These women hope that these men will change, but just like the seasons, the weather, or any other process, you can't force change. Just like a man who tries to turn a whore into a housewife, he will be cheated on ferociously and he will try to work it out hoping that she will change. Bad boys and slutty women must change on their own, in other words...get it out of their system. Some people never change while others change as they get older. Something you should never do is be with a person in their slut or bad boy prime unless it's only recreational. You will enjoy yourself a lot better.

So what does this say about people who go for the bad boy or slut? They are lacking something in their lives. If it's adventure from a mundane world or sex from a sexless relationship or just being single, the thing is if you keep it recreational and fun then you will have less problems and you can have your fun until you find a person that is respectable, but have the qualities that make the bad boy or slut attractive without the bad "side effects".