Understanding Men: Dont Assume Anything

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If you find that understanding men and why we make you guys so mad all the time is a frustrating issue, let's take it back on level. There is something that you lot do often that we have to deal with which doesn't make things easier.

Unless we're intentionally trying to make you angry, we wouldn't do anything on purpose to try and get under your skin. I'm not pointing fingers, but you do realize that sometimes, the problem starts with you? Let me explain.

One of the things that can get on a guy's nerves is when girls assume things. Now don't get me wrong, I do the same thing, so it's not just limited to females. I know my girlfriend does it too, so I'm assuming that other girls might have a similar problem.

Huge, heated arguments have arisen out of a complete misunderstanding between my girlfriend and I, where assumptions were made by either one us. Heck, just last night, I saw some tablets on the bench and assumed that my girlfriend wasn't taking her contraceptive pills regularly and not being responsible enough in our relationship.

Turns out she was just cleaning out her bag and they were old cold and flu tablets.

Silly me.

We didn't talk for an entire day early in our relationship when I was asking her questions about her favourite brand of hair straightener and she thought that I was buying it for someone else when I was acting all suspicious. That's probably the worst situation assuming something has caused hell in our relationship.

There was this other time that I was late to her house and she went to sleep without me. She wouldn't open the door because I was so late. Turns out that she forgot to turn back her clock one hour for daylight savings. Again, completely innocent mistake, but still caused me quite a bit of grief.

Try not to assume anything. He might have a good reason for not doing something. You can practice understanding men by not jumping to conclusions and letting your emotions get in the way when you communicate with us. We know that we do it as well and as long as we are both aware of our problems with assuming things, we can sort it out over time.

If you are adamant that your man is causing all the trouble in the relationship, I'm sorry but you probably aren't going to last much longer. Remember, it takes one to know one.